Most managers assume that being the go-to person is what makes them valuable.
That belief is dangerous.
In reality, being the “always available” leader introduces dependency.
Teams stop thinking because that person handles everything.
In the beginning, this looks like high performance.
But eventually:
- Decisions slow down
- Ownership disappears
- Pressure compounds
This is why a large number of leaders hit a ceiling.
They didn’t build a team.
A powerful breakdown of this idea is explained in this article by :contentReference[oaicite:3]index=3:
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In the article, more info he explains that:
- Strong leaders can unintentionally limit growth
- Collapse is not random
- Real leadership scales people
What makes this different is its honesty.
Leadership is not about doing everything.
It’s about building people who don’t need you.
This idea is reinforced in :contentReference[oaicite:4]index=4, where the same warning is broken down.
The most effective leaders don’t centralize control.
They build capability.
So instead of asking:
“How can I do more?”
Reframe it to:
“How can my team do more without me?”
At the end of the day:
If you are the bottleneck, you are limiting growth.
That’s dependency.